Some people are worth remembering
Life gets busy. Weeks become months. And suddenly you realize you haven't talked to someone who matters in way too long.
Bethany notices before you do. She sends you a text when it's time to reach out—with a ready-to-send message you can fire off in seconds.
Relationships don't die dramatically
They fade slowly. A missed call here, a forgotten text there. Before you know it, someone important has drifted into "we should catch up sometime" territory.
"Wait, when did we last talk?"
That moment when you realize months have passed since you connected with someone you actually care about.
Another app to check
CRMs are for work. Your real relationships deserve something that meets you where you already are.
"What do I even say?"
Sometimes the hardest part isn't remembering—it's figuring out how to break the silence.
How Bethany works
It's like having a thoughtful friend who remembers everyone for you
Tell me who matters
Text me the names of people you want to stay close to. I'll ask a few questions to understand the relationship.
I keep track
Based on how close you want to be, I'll notice when someone's slipping off your radar—before it gets awkward.
One tap to reconnect
When it's time, I'll text you with a ready-to-send message. Just tap to send—or edit if you want to personalize it.
Hey! 👋 It's been almost 3 weeks since you last talked to Sarah. You two used to catch up more often.
Want me to help you reach out? Here's a quick message:
Perfect, sending now!
Based on real research
Dunbar's number is 150
That's how many meaningful relationships your brain can maintain. But within that 150, there are layers—and each one needs different levels of attention.
Your closest confidants. Weekly check-ins.
Your inner circle. Every couple weeks.
Good friends. Monthly works.
Your extended network. Quarterly is fine.
Bethany uses this research to nudge you at just the right time—before relationships start to fade.
What makes Bethany different
SMS-first
No app to download or dashboard to check. Everything happens right in your text messages.
Ready-to-send messages
Don't know what to say? I'll write it for you. One tap to send, or edit to make it yours.
Science-backed timing
Based on Dunbar's research, I know exactly when a relationship needs attention.
Family-aware
Research shows family bonds don't decay like friendships. I adjust my nudges accordingly.
Drift detection
I'll notice if you're naturally drifting apart and help you decide what to do about it.
Gentle, not naggy
I'm here to help, not guilt trip. Just friendly nudges when the time is right.
Ready to stay connected?
Start for free. No credit card required. Just add a few people who matter and let me do the rest.
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